CINTA HATIKU

CINTA HATIKU

Tuesday, 11 December 2012

Treat them well..

Mama and Abah..

Two of the most important person to me..

24 tahun mereka jage saye sampailah saye kahwin..24 tahun with them, tak pernah saye tak dapat ape yang saye nak..mungkin x senang nak dapat bile mintak tu but I will get it sooner or later..

Growing up, I witnessed kesusahan my parents mencari rezeki especially my dad. And all that for his family, for his wife and kids..Susah payah die selame ni untuk saye and adik2 and I am thankful for that.

Yes, saye membesar tak la sesusah mane..ramai lagi yang lagi susah dari saya and semua tu atas usaha mama and abah..saye adik beradik mungkin rezeki datang bergolek but my parents worked hard for it.terutamanya abah saya..

And saye bersyukur sgt2 coz Allah and my parents always keep me grounded.saye x diberi kemewahan membuta tuli..I have to earned what I want.I was taught to manage my own financial.Ape yg di bagi bulan2 itulah yang saye catu..

And for what I get, saye hanye mampu membalas ape yang terdaye and selebihnye saye doa kepada Allah.

Mase belajar I give them good results and make them proud.
I worked at my dad's company coz he built it for me and my siblings..
I try my best to fulfill their request selagi mampu coz x pernah saye nampak  mama and abah mengeluh or susah hati if I ask for anything from them.
24 tahun they cope with my attitude and masalah why can't I do the same with them?

Now that I am also a mom, I will always try to treat my parents as how I want my kids to treat me and my hubby. Saye rase itu je yang saye mampu buat untuk balas jase my parents..nak bagi kemewahan memang tak mampu..They are and will always be in my prayers.

Selagi mereka hidup, saye akan cube berbuat baik to them and senangkan hati mereka. Coz I will never know when they will leave me. I hope Allah panjangkan umur mereka and they live long enough to be at their grand daughter's wedding.

Another thing, mase arwah atuk and nenek saye masih hidup, I witnessed my dad treating them to the best of his ability. Towards the end of their age, my dad yang take care of them.x pernah saye dengar die mengeluh.
Saye selalu dengar arwah atuk saye puji abah saye..both arwah atuk saye..

And I think Allah repays my dad for his good deeds..What he has now somehow reflected the good things he has done to his parents and others.

“Dan Kami perintahkan kepada manusia (agar berbuat baik) kepada kedua orang tuanya, ibunya telah mengandungkannya dengan keadaan lemah yang bertambah-tambah, dan menyusukannya selama dua tahun, bersyukurlah kepadaKu dan kepada kedua orang tuamu, hanya kepada Aku kembalimu” (Luqman, 31: 14)

“Tuhanmu telah memerintahkan, supaya kamu tidak menyembah selain Allah, dan hendaklah berbuat santun terhadap kedua orang tua. Jika salah seorang telah lanjut usianya, atau kedua-duanya telah tua, janganlah sekali-kali engkau berani berkata ‘ah’ terhadap mereka dan janganlah engkau suka menggertak mereka. Tetapi berkatalah dengan sopan santun dan lemah lembut.” (al-Isra’, 17: 23 )

"Berbuat baiklah kepada ibu bapamu, nescaya anakmu akan berbuat baik kepadamu. Dan bersikap jujurlah kepada ibu bapamu, nescaya isteri kamu akan bersikap jujur kepada kamu." (Hadis al-Tabrani)

Be good to your parents peeps!


1 comment:

CaDLyNN said...

totally agreed :)

lets treat them well