Sunday, 8 July 2007

People judged us as much as we do..

Judging people is what we do everyday..We just can't help it because sometimes we don't even realised that we are judging people..I know coz I did that to..I met one of my old fren recently.We haven't contacted each other for quite some time..She told me her side of the stories when I ask her bout it.Well, I heard the other side of the stories and I didn't like it at all and that was one of the reason why I didn't bother to contact her sometime..She can never understand why people can't stop talking bout her and made up stories..well my dear, that's people..Mulut orang ni bukan bleh nak ditutup..So, it's either you what tak tau or you start talking too..But I like the latter better and that's what she did..Yes, she was judged and yes I did judge her too..Listening to her side of her story makes me pity her and rase bersalah sikit2 sebab I did judged her too..But I still don't like how she treats people sometimes..It's just selfish to me..To whoever it is,if you happen to read this entry and terase,I'm sorry.. jangan ambil hati k..I still love you and you are still my fren..I know the feeling when people judged us on what we do and I know it sucks..

The truth is,like it or not, we are being judged by people around us every second and that is part of life..What we wear, how we talk, what we eat, who we see, who we love..We are judged on all this and on everything we do..What I can suggest is, just live with it and never take things to heart..Just don't care what people say as long as you know who you are and you believe what you did is right..But sometimes, other people can see the things that we don't know bout ourselves..So before we melenting on what they said, give it a thought first..We can never stop people from talking but it would be nice if we can buktikan that what they said was wrong wouldn't it?..


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