we can always give our opinions and suggestions..'you can..' or 'you should'..or 'why not' but don't expect people to agree and follow because at the end of the day, they are the one who should decide.
they are the one facing it and have to live with the consequences of their actions. so you can't say 'if you don't want to listen to me, why bother approaching me for an opinion..' wow.
orang tu je tau ape die rase and kenape die buat camtu..untuk kite cakap kite paham ape die rase and nak die ikut cakap kite and cadangan kite..hrmm, i dunno what to say..
kalau kite hadapi ape yang orang tu hadapi, belum tentu kite mampu buat cam ape yang kite cadangkan kat orang tu kan?
just my opinion..u don't have to agree..